In this episode, we had the pleasure to talk about, well, pleasure, with the amazing Sex Educator and author of Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults, Ruby Rare. Ruby Rare is a sex educator, artist, and body-positive champion. Her work is influenced by her experiences as a queer, non-monogamous, dual-heritage woman.
Among some of Ruby’s passions and interests, a few highlights include powerpuff girls (you can test her on that) and all types of history: “I’m a history nerd, especially if it comes to things in my field, like the history of sex and relationships”. She means business, and she’s on a mission to engage people of all ages in positive conversations about their pleasure.
“There are no cheats here, there are no quick ways to feel comfortable with yourself and comfortable with pleasure. It’s about like making a commitment to really look at yourself as you would a friend who you care about, and not someone who you are inclined to criticize or judge or put a large amount of pressure on.”
About the guest
Ruby Rare is a pink-haired sex educator on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about sex. She’s curious to have the conversations many shy away from, with a nuanced perspective that holds inclusion and sex positivity at the very core.